In the spirit of happiness and a life of authenticity, the practice of acceptance is paramount. Navigating self-acceptance is one of the more challenging aspects of my own well-being and I suspect for others as well. The conflict arises when we are unable to accept where we are with emotional and spiritual development while simultaneously accepting there is potential to continue to grow and be better.
Acceptance is about acknowledging that we are complex beings full of emotions, experiences, and feelings that create our sense of self. It is about understanding those instances of insecurity, uncertainty, fear, and separation in addition to experiences of joy, love, and hopefulness. It’s about accepting the reality of all those things without judgement or blame. Often we think that when we react a certain way or have a certain response, we must launch into the “why?”
The moment we start adding qualifying statements about who we are or what causes us to respond a certain way…we are trying to explain, rationalize, and perhaps even justify ourselves. When we add these types of disclaimers to our interactions and experiences, we unknowingly add a stamp of rejection to our being which creates the conflict. We create internal chatter that who we are, what we are experiencing, and our feelings/emotions are not okay.
Accepting the reality of any given circumstance, situation, or interaction initiates a true perspective and shifts the entire experience. It is no longer about judging, blaming, or punishing. It is about gaining understanding and empowering ourselves with knowledge and deciding how we are either going to stay in that moment or act on a potential.
As the practice of acceptance becomes more fluid, other practices will harmonize in a beautiful symphony of love, understanding, compassion and kindness. And when we experience these things deep within our being, the abundance will flow through our lives and help saturate all of our surroundings.